I guess by 'loli' you don't mean things like 'This artwork this guy has done of Satori/Koishi [Choosing them because they tend to be almost always depicted as such] makes her look cute'; but less... uh... savory and safe-for-work... things. Just wanted a little clarification on the rule here; for everyone's sake [Especially the Art forums. Don't want people getting in trouble for commenting on someone's artwork of a puppy-dog-eyes Satori or something]
Honestly, I'd be perfectly satisfied to see a much lower tolerance policy on the word 'loli'. Seriously, there is zero reason to use the word outside of, like, the phrase 'goth loli', as that's referring to the gothic lolita style and is vastly different from what connotations that the word 'loli' has.
The word doesn't just mean 'little girl' no matter how much people want to say it does. The general implication is that it refers to a sexualized child and that is just... no. And I think it's way overused in the Touhou community, which, as we've just seen, can lead some to think that we condone talking about sexualized little girls and no, no we don't.
The real kicker to all of this is that the creepiness went way under the radar for so long because no one reported him for it-- and I've heard multiple accounts of 'well, I thought it was weird, but I didn't know it was wrong' and that's why I'd rather people just not use the word at all. You know what I'm saying?
The same goes for words like 'rape' and 'fag', which have a tendency to be thrown around casually a lot. There is absolutely no reason to use them and in the vast majority of the time the person using those words out of context are doing so just to be oh-so-edgy while those words have a lot more heavy implications than what they are saying they do.
Treating mods/admins with respect is a no-brainer; and anyone dumb enough to insult a mod; especially when already tempbanned; shouldn't be here. Slight shame; since the person in question had some contact with me on the forums and seemed alright; but that behavior... nope; I'm standing up for the banhammer here.
You'd think it would be a no-brainer, but yet, here we are talking about why we shouldn't be discussing sexualized children, too. There seems to be a deficit of common sense here, and that's what this PSA is here to clarify.