Have you tried...you know...not being overly super sensitive when it comes to other people phrasing things? There is literally no difference in meaning between "it sucks" and "I dislike it", because both will always be the same subjective opinion of an individual, or in more rare cases, groups. Being offended at one, but not the other makes no sense, assuming the reasoning behind the two is the same. Of course, it's not cool saying things like "Everyone who likes xxx is dumb as shit", yes. But saying "xxx sucks, because (...)" should not be something where people go "omg, stop being a bully". People have a different way of phrasing things (e.g cursing a lot vs not cursing a lot) and I feel it's fairly patronizing towards people who were simply brought up in a cruder way than your sheltered self. Being nice towards each other is important, but nitpicking minor differences in phrasing is just ridiculous in my eyes.
20th anniversary isn't until 2016, assuming you take the first showing of HrtP as starting point, not the release, in which case it wouldn't be until 2017. And personally, I hope it's something that reuses a lot of old, good girls. Like Youmu and Alice.