>"Well... Tokiko, I'm going to say a lot of stuff here that's probably confusing, but try and hear me out, okay?"
>"I think... the way that you act is important in how other people react to you and treat you. Most of the time, people will return the tone that you show them. If you're nice, people will usually be nice - or at least, nicer than if you do something that could make them mad, or avoid them entirely. Of course, if you're mean to people or try to hurt them or the stuff they own, then they'll be mean back."
>"But this goes for avoiding people, too - if you run away from someone, then they may have a reason to be suspicious about WHY you ran. Whether it's called cowardice, shyness, acting like a thief, or whatever, it makes it a little more difficult to trust and respect you in the future. Running may keep you safe right now, but it doesn't help you make friends - and friends you don't HAVE to run away from."
>"This doesn't mean you have to go around talking to everyone that seems scary to make sure that they ARE scary... but if you meet someone new somewhere fairly safe, it might be worth being nice to them for a minute and see what they're like. I get the feeling you're still learning how to do this, but I think it would be worthwhile for you in the end. So... just try and remember that."
>"I'll do what I can to help you out with this, at least when I'm around. But I won't force you into it if you don't want to do it. I think there's going to be lots of new people at this mansion, and I don't know how nice they'll be, or what they'd expect from us. If you don't think you'll be able to stay calm through all that, then it's okay to stay behind. It's a lot to ask of you right now. Would you like to stay with me while I talk with new people, or wait in the forest for now?"
Someone use that when the time is right.