Um... Hmmm... I'd say go for the Murasa one (you'd look pretty cute in that hat, to be perfectly honest >.>), but only if you can get matching cullotes to replace the skirt with. >.>
Also, re: Looking more feminine... Um, for what it's worth, a little dab of make-up seems to do wonders. I mean, not to the extent that you're just slapping on a ton of the stuff, but just a light touch here and there can help. At least, in my experience anyways. >.> Not saying it's, like, the be-all end-all solution, but...