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UK and E-Mouse (Season 1)
E-Nazrin:
--- Quote from: UncertainKitten on October 08, 2009, 09:31:38 PM ---I see ^-^
And you knew Serpy was my master
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Discovered, rather, but same diff, pretty much.
--- Quote ---As for the Ruro thing, I actually don't know what their relation is :P
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Well that just left things even more confusing ??? Oh well.
--- Quote ---Sure, what'd you like to know?
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Man, I don't even know. Start me off with the basics. What are major signs of gender identity, and what are they based on?
--- Quote ---Oh really? That is mildly creepy.
Maybe we really should consider each other ^-^...
As I said, I'm VERY versatile ^-^.
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So I see. :V
UncertainJakutten:
--- Quote ---Discovered, rather, but same diff, pretty much.
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Nah, I pretty much told you. @whatis #touhou-meido UK was a pretty solid hint.
As for confusing...well...you know...I mean, it's not like I get into what other affairs master has. I'm just a toy...if he has other affections it's fine...as long as I can serve him.
--- Quote ---Man, I don't even know. Start me off with the basics. What are major signs of gender identity, and what are they based on?
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Eh, that's not really an easy question. Gender identity is basically "Am I a guy or a girl, or something inbetween?". I mean, there's no real "signs" of it, you just...know. As for determining others gender identities, I admit most of my studies have been general psych, not focused yet. Most of my focused research was done independently, so yeah.
So I see? That's a mild reply to an offer like that ^-^. Well, suppose you did accept me...what would we talk about then? And what would we do? It's a harmless hypothetical.
E-Nazrin:
Sorry for the delay. Ran up for a quick dinner.
--- Quote from: UncertainKitten on October 08, 2009, 10:52:10 PM ---Nah, I pretty much told you. @whatis #touhou-meido UK was a pretty solid hint.
As for confusing...well...you know...I mean, it's not like I get into what other affairs master has. I'm just a toy...if he has other affections it's fine...as long as I can serve him.
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The way sexual jealousy and/or monogamy follows almost entirely from genetic selfishness is kinda hilarious and sad. I at least try to have the same openness, though for more... I don't know, applied practical reasons? Not sure how to word that.
Now, STDs are a more valid objection, but possible to deal with if you keep it in mind. I REALLY should get tested, even though my exposure is incredibly minimal.
And whoever ate that monkey brain earned what he got. The real shame is how it managed to get to other people...
--- Quote ---Eh, that's not really an easy question. Gender identity is basically "Am I a guy or a girl, or something inbetween?". I mean, there's no real "signs" of it, you just...know. As for determining others gender identities, I admit most of my studies have been general psych, not focused yet. Most of my focused research was done independently, so yeah.
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Somewhat similar here, though I did take evolutionary/social psychology courses. Applying those in especially positive ways is more of my own pursuit, and hopefully a successful focus for my thesis.
Going back to the original point, though, would you care to expand on the "in between?" I've heard a little about it from a more biological view and found it kinda interesting how much evidence there is of gender not being strictly binary (even if it usually is), but I didn't catch many details.
--- Quote ---So I see? That's a mild reply to an offer like that ^-^. Well, suppose you did accept me...what would we talk about then? And what would we do? It's a harmless hypothetical.
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What we're doing right now, perhaps? :V
UncertainJakutten:
--- Quote ---The way sexual jealousy and/or monogamy follows almost entirely from genetic selfishness is kinda hilarious and sad. I at least try to have the same openness, though for more... I don't know, applied practical reasons? Not sure how to word that.
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To be fair, part of the reason Serpy is my master is that he wouldn't use me unless I was his alone. Of course, he still lets me play with cybering, and with his permission I can be played with IRL, whether hybrid or completely. But I think his motivations are different. As for openness...you just have to be careful what you are open to.
Haha, and you cover that argument RIGHT after I think about it :P
I swear, I really could love you :P
--- Quote ---Somewhat similar here, though I did take evolutionary/social psychology courses. Applying those in especially positive ways is more of my own pursuit, and hopefully a successful focus for my thesis.
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That explains your "Genetic jealousy" argument.
--- Quote ---Going back to the original point, though, would you care to expand on the "in between?" I've heard a little about it from a more biological view and found it kinda interesting how much evidence there is of gender not being strictly binary (even if it usually is), but I didn't catch many details.
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In between is just that. Someone can feel they are both, or neither, or some mix of the binary, among other things.
--- Quote ---What we're doing right now, perhaps?
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Well, if you'd like to use me for conversation, that's perfectly fine as well. I love to talk.
E-Nazrin:
--- Quote from: UncertainKitten on October 08, 2009, 11:37:17 PM ---To be fair, part of the reason Serpy is my master is that he wouldn't use me unless I was his alone. Of course, he still lets me play with cybering, and with his permission I can be played with IRL, whether hybrid or completely.
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Ho? And yet Xan seemed to... heh, wow. I see. The 'permission' part is actually important in any sort of open relationship, whether it's 'use'-based or otherwise; open discussion and agreement on who enters the 'network' is an important part of limiting that jealousy. I made sure to tell my boyfriend about Ruro's antics once things started seeming actually flirty, even though he's barely interested in Touhou. Now that she has AIM, I gave them contact info on there, and... hang on.
--- Quote ---(7:56:48 PM) E mouse2000: Inquiry.
(7:56:53 PM) E mouse2000: Are you flirting with Ruro :P
(7:57:40 PM) UltrosCMC: A liiiiiitle :P
(7:57:42 PM) UltrosCMC: [20:10] UltrosCMC: So, mousey mentioned you want me :P
[20:10] Rurorange: >_>
[20:11] Rurorange: <_<
[20:11] UltrosCMC: *kisses your cheek*
[20:12] Rurorange: Aaaaaaaaah I'm helping you cheat on Mousey D:
[20:12] Rurorange: .... :D
[20:13] UltrosCMC: It's not cheating if he's okay with it.
[20:19] UltrosCMC: So, how's it going?
[20:23] Rurorange: Busy. In fact, I think I have to leave this computer so I can do more homeworks :<
[20:24] UltrosCMC: Aww. *hug*
[20:24] UltrosCMC: What homeworks?
[20:26] Rurorange: Geography atm.
[20:27] Rurorange: Then, more geography.
[20:27] Rurorange: And to round it off, geography.
[20:27] Rurorange: :|
[20:27] UltrosCMC: Heh. If there's any math stuff, let me know. I might be able to help with that if needed.
[20:29] Rurorange: I'll keep that in mind :D~
[20:29] Rurorange: Well, in any case, time to go. Bite Mousey on the ear for me~
[20:29] UltrosCMC: Kay~
(7:57:46 PM) UltrosCMC: There's the last time we talked.
(7:58:02 PM) E mouse2000: Thought so~
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So yeah. There's been more than that, in all honesty, but a good example.
Though I'm curious what you mean by 'hybrid' there. Playing with both Serp and someone else?
(p.s. Sorry, if Ruro didn't want that convo shared. :{)
--- Quote --- But I think his motivations are different. As for openness...you just have to be careful what you are open to.
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Care to elaborate on the 'what you're open to' part? Is this more about the what you're willing to do submissively or have I missed something?
--- Quote ---Haha, and you cover that argument RIGHT after I think about it :P
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It's amusing how many things make perfect sense from a purely practical standpoint if you just try to find the proper explanation. Even morals, for chrissakes.
--- Quote ---That explains your "Genetic jealousy" argument.
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Yeah, that class was great fodder for strictly-practical framing. Great experience.
--- Quote ---In between is just that. Someone can feel they are both, or neither, or some mix of the binary, among other things.
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Fun. Do they tend to act differently based on this? That's more what I was wondering about based on gender identity, particularly for the non-standard positions.
furthermore: SAOTOMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
--- Quote ---Well, if you'd like to use me for conversation, that's perfectly fine as well. I love to talk.
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Well, if you're going to insist on framing it as 'use' then okay...