This thread started out as halloween then BDSM then gendertalk then states

[Jana]

No, I'm fairly sure that I don't get it yet... Well, hopefully they won't be partying when I try to sleep tonight.

[UncertainJakutten]

No, I'm fairly sure that I don't get it yet... Well, hopefully they won't be partying when I try to sleep tonight.

TSO
is
a
girl

It doesn't matter if she has a penis. She
is
a
girl!

You do not call her him, or she he. She
is
a
girl!

Does that spell it out for you?

[Jana]

 'kay. D:

...My roommate just left to party it up with some old friends. He'll probably come back drunk. Damn it.

[helvetica]

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[Nobu]

*hugs TSO!*

[Kilgamayan]

I think Jan is confusing physical gender with psychological gender. It's not something to get mad at the guy about, he's probably just uninformed as opposed to outright bigoted.

[Kerigis]

Oh well, why not throwing my two cents as well, given that this topic is getting awesome?

(To start with... ehh, you don't see Halloween celebrations here. It's mostly an excuse to gather friends and drink. :V)

So yeah, BDSM, gender, etc.

I can say that, the time I've been lingering on Touhou and their respective communities was an eye-opener to me. To begin with, I shunned every single pr0n-related manga/anime thing that appeared in front of me, and yeah, that even included the lightest of fanservices. But hell, I hopped into the Touhou community, and well, things happened. Starting with Danbooru and whatnot, and then well, what can I say? I discovered many things, like my fetishes and my fantasies.

About BDSM... I can't say I have a definite position for it. I think one of my greatest talents is adaptability in plenty of life scenarios. I can take the role of complete opposites, and be happy with it. The ones who have roleplayed with me may know that already, but I can play the Dom role as well as the Sub role. That goes for RPing and IRL.

Genders... well, didn't I say adaptability was one of my talents? Role-playing wise, it's such a feast: I've taken roles of men and women, and yeah, another funny thing about me is that when I get too much into it, the characters can take control of me. Adaptative, yeah... I can feel very "manly" when, say, I watch a TTGL episode, or I could feel very "womanly" when I see something very touching, or taking it to another position, when I see a very particular H scene with a girl and I see something I'd like to feel as well, fantasizing me as the girl. IRL is a little bit different thing to me, though. I like very much being a man, I'm straight, etc. Probably if I were born as a woman, I probably would've said the same thing... or who knows?

Speaking of which, my greatest character creation was a girl with a very lusty philosophy. And yes, she took control of me as well. ;3. Another bonus is that I've taken roles of girls more and it's easier for me as well to make H-scenes with them.

[Nobu]

To begin with, I shunned every single pr0n-related manga/anime thing that appeared in front of me, and yeah, that even included the lightest of fanservices.

I used to do that way back in the day too! ^_^ Hah! I used to think I was above such 'uncultured, perverted things'. Pfft

Sounds like you have a pretty malleable gender identity along with being a switch.

[Tengukami]

Yep, Kerigis sounds like a switch to me.

[Greyn]

No, I'm fairly sure that I don't get it yet... Well, hopefully they won't be partying when I try to sleep tonight.

TSO
is
a
girl

It doesn't matter if she has a penis. She
is
a
girl!

You do not call her him, or she he. She
is
a
girl!

Does that spell it out for you?

I suppose I should go back to addressing TSO as her/she then. :X

[Jana]

I think Jan is confusing physical gender with psychological gender. It's not something to get mad at the guy about, he's probably just uninformed as opposed to outright bigoted.

I feel really bad about it, though... Like I shouldn't be uninformed. I'm in the process of questioning myself too, so to slip up like this feels more than a little humiliating... Even if it's just online.

[Tengukami]

I think Jan is confusing physical gender with psychological gender. It's not something to get mad at the guy about, he's probably just uninformed as opposed to outright bigoted.

I feel really bad about it, though... Like I shouldn't be uninformed. I'm in the process of questioning myself too, so to slip up like this feels more than a little humiliating... Even if it's just online.

You should give yourself credit for actually wanting to get informed. I know plenty of people who'd be like "Don't gimme that pseudo-science mumbo jumbo". The fact that you were like "My bad" and asked questions is commendable.

[Nobu]

I think Jan is confusing physical gender with psychological gender. It's not something to get mad at the guy about, he's probably just uninformed as opposed to outright bigoted.

I feel really bad about it, though... Like I shouldn't be uninformed. I'm in the process of questioning myself too, so to slip up like this feels more than a little humiliating... Even if it's just online.

*patpat* Don't worry about it; everyone starts somewhere. And everyone makes mistakes. And well, it may be online but we're all real people behind our shiny Avas.

Well, except for me. I'm a chupacabra. :3~

[Greyn]

I think Jan is confusing physical gender with psychological gender. It's not something to get mad at the guy about, he's probably just uninformed as opposed to outright bigoted.

I feel really bad about it, though... Like I shouldn't be uninformed. I'm in the process of questioning myself too, so to slip up like this feels more than a little humiliating... Even if it's just online.

*patpat* Don't worry about it; everyone starts somewhere. And everyone makes mistakes. And well, it may be online but we're all real people behind our shiny Avas.

Well, except for me. I'm a chupacabra. :3~

So what part of the goat do you like to suck on?  :V

[Nobu]

I think Jan is confusing physical gender with psychological gender. It's not something to get mad at the guy about, he's probably just uninformed as opposed to outright bigoted.

I feel really bad about it, though... Like I shouldn't be uninformed. I'm in the process of questioning myself too, so to slip up like this feels more than a little humiliating... Even if it's just online.

*patpat* Don't worry about it; everyone starts somewhere. And everyone makes mistakes. And well, it may be online but we're all real people behind our shiny Avas.

Well, except for me. I'm a chupacabra. :3~

So what part of the goat do you like to suck on?  :V

Goats are a big misconception; I pray on hakutaku and Celestials. And the best part(s). 

[Greyn]

Goats are a big misconception; I pray on hakutaku and Celestials. And the best part(s). 

Well then the name Chupacabra is completely misleading.  The word itself means literally means 'Goat Sucker'!

[Nobu]

Goats are a big misconception; I pray on hakutaku and Celestials. And the best part(s). 

Well then the name Chupacabra is completely misleading.  The word itself means literally means 'Goat Sucker'!

SHH. It's because we sometimes confuse goats for hakutaku in sneaky disguise, and people thought that's all we ate.

Do not question me, pwease. (>;.> *bite*

[Menorah Jams, Pham]

All this talk about goat makes me wanna run for Jamaican food for lunch, but it's too far out and I won't make it in time.  D:

Stupid delicious goat.

[Jana]

You should give yourself credit for actually wanting to get informed. I know plenty of people who'd be like "Don't gimme that pseudo-science mumbo jumbo". The fact that you were like "My bad" and asked questions is commendable.

Thanks, I guess. It still feels like I'm not trying hard enough or something's missing, though. I feel like I should know all this already... I just have to keep trying.

*patpat* Don't worry about it; everyone starts somewhere. And everyone makes mistakes. And well, it may be online but we're all real people behind our shiny Avas.

Yeah, I guess since I'm just sort of starting out here, I should expect mistakes... Still, I apologize. It's because I know we're all people that I feel the need to try and understand without screwing up... I feel like I'm being offensive if I don't get it.

Well, except for me. I'm a chupacabra. :3~

Can I have your autograph?

[helvetica]

I bet Nobu wants to nibble on goat cock :V

[Tengukami]

I bet Nobu wants to nibble on goat cock :V

Only when he's horn-y.

[Gpop]

I'm hungry fot goat now.

[Nobu]

I bet Nobu wants to nibble on goat cock :V

Only when he's awake.

Fixed.

I'm hungry fot goat now.

*nibbles on Hungry Fot Goat*

[Greyn]

We'll have to see if any livestock is available for Nobu to suckle some nice warm Goats milk before the day is over.

[Slaves]

I bet Nobu wants to nibble on goat cock :V

Only when he's horn-y.

*ba-dum psshhh*

[Greyn]

Halloween USA has all kinds of thigh highs on sale for under 5 dollars each. I'm raiding the place on my next paycheck.

They also have the perfect witches brooms in case I ever need to whip up a Marisa cosplay.

How did that NOT make it into this thread.

I love the sight of thighhighs on a nice pair of legs~

[Menorah Jams, Pham]

I love the sight of thighhighs on a nice pair of legs~

Goddammit, every American who tries this is DOING THIS WRONG.  They're supposed to be SOCKS, not STOCKINGS.  GET IT THE FUCK RIGHT

STOCKINGS = WITH A GARTER
SOCKS = ZETTAI RYOUIKI.  NO FUCKING GARTER.  BECAUSE THEY ARE SOCKS AND THAT IS WHAT THEY DO.

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[Greyn]

I love the sight of thighhighs on a nice pair of legs~

Goddammit, every American who tries this is DOING THIS WRONG.  They're supposed to be SOCKS, not STOCKINGS.  GET IT THE FUCK RIGHT

STOCKINGS = WITH A GARTER
SOCKS = ZETTAI RYOUIKI.  NO FUCKING GARTER.  BECAUSE THEY ARE SOCKS AND THAT IS WHAT THEY DO.

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This outburst is most unlike you.  Mister Freeman.  I imagined you were calm and reserved in nearly every situation.

[Matsuri]

stockings are fine too

[Nobu]

I love the sight of thighhighs on a nice pair of legs~

Goddammit, every American who tries this is DOING THIS WRONG.  They're supposed to be SOCKS, not STOCKINGS.  GET IT THE FUCK RIGHT

STOCKINGS = WITH A GARTER
SOCKS = ZETTAI RYOUIKI.  NO FUCKING GARTER.  BECAUSE THEY ARE SOCKS AND THAT IS WHAT THEY DO.

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Bleh, without getting into an argument about semantics, in America the word 'Stockings' does not indicate that it must include a garter. We are not wrong in the context of our own culture, but in forums where there is a diverse international presence, we may use words that mean something different to someone else.

So I want to apologize on behalf of language evolution for words carrying different meanings in different places. Please excuse us. :3