@Mode: That's so sad... How far is Utah from your new place? Isn't there some way you could visit?
...This kind of thing almost happened to me once, when I moved from my old house 6 years ago, but it was a b more complicated... It's really weird looking back on it. There was a girl I really liked, but a buddy of mine told me he liked her too, so I told him that since I was moving, he should take the chance. He did, and they dated for a while... Until she moved hundreds of miles away herself. I still see her online from time to time, and it feels so awkward to just say "Hello," despite it being years since I really had emotions for her.