Well, what do you expect? You expect us to identify with Remilia, the uptight arrogant aristocrat? The slightly psychopathic gardener? The cat that likes gathering corpses and putting them in her wheelbarrow?
I guess I also identify with Youmu, because I'm also someone who believes in playing by the rules, is absurdly ignorant about many of the finer points in life, and has a tendency to be playfully bullied by everyone around them.