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If you have less than 10 posts the following items are restricted from you.

• You cannot select or upload an avatar or signature
• You cannot post in Rumia's Party Games or LettyJournal

If you have less than 3 posts the following items are further restricted from you.

• Posting new threads or replies will require moderator approval before they are visible
• You cannot view profiles of other members
• You cannot view LettyJournal
• You cannot send personal messages

These policies are not up for debate.  If you want these privileges participate!  You will gain these privileges automatically after hitting each of the postcount plateaus (3 and 10 posts).